Understanding trouble with social skills
Expert reviewed by Bob Cunningham, EdM
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- Quick tip 1Learn from examples.
Learn from examples.Use videos, TV shows, or real-life events to observe social situations in action. Watch for social cues. For example, notice when people in a conversation are looking around and seem open to others joining.
Social skills help us connect with other people and have successful interactions. Trouble with these skills can cause problems in many areas of life. That includes school, work, home, and out in the community.
Struggling with social skills is different from not “being social.” People may want to interact. But when they do, it doesn’t go well. They might struggle to make conversation, seem out of sync, or behave in a way that turns off other people.
People may have trouble picking up on social cues and following social rules. That can make it hard to fit in, form friendships, and work with others. People may avoid interacting and feel isolated and alone with their struggles.
People have difficulty with social skills for different reasons. Sometimes, the cause is temporary. But trouble with these skills is often part of larger, lifelong challenges.
That doesn’t mean social abilities are set in stone. There are ways to build skills so it’s easier to connect with other people and have better interactions.
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What trouble with social skills looks like
What can cause trouble with social skills
How to improve social skills
About the author
About the author
The Understood Team is made up of passionate writers and editors. Many of them have kids who learn and think differently.
Reviewed by
Reviewed by
Bob Cunningham, EdM serves as executive director of learning development at Understood.
