Why kids in fourth grade often get angry

It takes self-control to keep anger in check. Most kids gain that skill by early grade school and can keep from having outbursts. 

But some kids take much longer to develop self-control than their peers. They can have trouble managing anger throughout their childhood. 

Find out more about self-control and what it means for kids.

Kids with ADHD often feel emotions intensely. They also have trouble managing emotions. So, when things don’t go well, it doesn’t take much for frustration or worries to tip over into anger.

It’s also hard for kids with ADHD to let go of negative feelings. They often get “stuck” in their emotions and don’t see things from different angles. Anger can fester long after a situation has passed.

Learn more about ADHD and anger.

Pay close attention to the behavior and look for patterns. For example, do outbursts always happen when it’s time to read? Is the anger worse at certain times of day? 

Kids get the best help and support when families and teachers work closely together. Share your observations and concerns. Talk about strategies to try and what to do next. 

Pediatricians can also help with behavior challenges. Parents and caregivers should connect with their child’s doctor about the anger issues they’re seeing.

Parents and caregivers: Keep in mind that it’s not uncommon for fourth graders to suddenly stop talking to you. Find out why it happens and what to do.