Understanding why kids struggle with organization

Some signs of organization problems are clear, like a workspace that’s always messy. But others are harder to recognize. Here are some examples: 

• Forgetting to take important items back and forth from school, like homework

• Forgetting to gather the right materials for an assignment or project

• Not keeping things in a regular place so they’re easy to find

• Struggling to think about or do more than one thing at a time

• Having trouble telling a story in a logical way

Find out how kids use organization skills to learn.

When young kids struggle with organization, it may just be a matter of development. Kids develop organization skills at different rates. 

Not getting enough sleep can make it hard for kids to focus and stay organized. Stress, anxiety, and trauma can also play a role.

But as kids get older, the main cause of organization problems is trouble with executive function. This group of mental skills allows us to organize, plan, focus, and prioritize.

People with ADHD typically struggle with executive functioning skills. If you’re concerned, explore signs of ADHD in kids and adults.

Organization skills can improve with help and support. There are many strategies you can try to help kids get and stay organized — at home and at school. 

Also, showing empathy can improve kids’ self-esteem and motivate them to work on organization skills. (Scolding can make them feel like they’re “bad.”)

Check out these low-cost organization tools for kids, and get tips for teens and young adults.

And discover classroom strategies and supports that can help with organization.

Kids benefit the most when parents and teachers work together. Reach out and set up time to talk. Share what you’re seeing and strategies you’ve tried.

Pediatricians can also help. If you’re a parent or caregiver, talk to your child’s health care provider about what’s happening at home and at school. 

Parents and caregivers: Learn how to pick up on patterns in your child’s behavior.

Educators: Get tips for starting good relationships with families.